![]() I wanted to make sure to have the core list overall complete, but this may come off as a bit much to beginners. ![]() This way one can quickly see the Loves and Hates then go back for a second pass for finer detail. It may look busy at first, but the color coding really helps making the checklist scan-able for key information. The notes section can be really handy to give a quick declaration of why one gave the interest level for said item or clarify special circumstances. For a while it was considered mostly just accounting type software, but now thanks to Google Docs and other online systems the Excel file format is much more accessible.Īs for the main layout I wanted to make sure someone could declare interest, existing experience, and then a section for notes to clarify any particulars. Ranging from pdfs, to doc files, to websites, they all were pretty much a mess and then it came to me that trying to use an Excel file was a no brainer. On my research to find a decent preexisting checklist it seemed something was always missing, they weren't always easy to share, and the data on a completed checklist wasn't always easy to review. Using Excel as the main platform it may come off a bit nerdy, however the format is much easier to open and use these days. Restraints combinations (wrists to waist, etc.After scouring the net and generally not being satisfied with any checklists out there I took matters in my own hands to make one that would be an obvious improvement. Love: means that the activity figures among the sub’s favorites. Like: means that the sub likes the activity at least on an occasional basis. Okay: means that the sub has no problem with the activity but it has no special appeal to her. ![]() Desire: means that the sub has little or no experience with the activity but greatly wants to try it. Curious: means that the sub have no (or very little) experience with the activity but that she find the idea interesting. Hmm…: means that the sub has no (or very little) experience with the activity and that she is not really curious about it either. Dislike: means that the sub don’t like the activity but would not object if ordered to. Those can be due to either a VERY strong dislike, fear or disdain for that activity in general but that it is not impossible to negotiate them under some special circumstances. Soft limit: means that the sub has great reticences towards that activity. Limit: means that the activity is a hard limit and that the sub will NEVER do that activity under any circumstances ever. The Almost Perfect Male Dom/Female Sub Checklist! So it?s nice to use them to discuss or negotiate certain activities but perhaps not-so-good to rely on them only. * Last: Note that has much has I recommend using lists, especially for beginners, they are only a tool and don?t replace good communication. I guess I could perhaps try to make a more general one some day but I?m not quite sure when I?ll find the time so I make no promise here When I started to write it, it was only for my persona use and I never thought of posting it anywhere until now. ![]() But I guess anyone can arrange that to their liking as wellĪlso, like the title says, this list is for male doms/female subs? So I?m very sorry if this doesn?t apply to everyone. I have also arrange the ?willingness scale? Instead of using numbers from 0 to 5 like many other lists do I put a one-word answer choice. It is still not quite as ?perfect? as it could have been? and this is one of the reason I think it could be a good idea to post it here: If anyone can spot something I may have missed just let me know and I could still edit the post and add it to the original list ^-^ After my reply to freakxxx in the Training Your Sub thread someone convinced me to post here that checklist I made up a few months ago? I never found a list that seemed complete enough before so with the help of four different checklists found on the web plus another comprehensive list of fetishes I came up with my own.
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